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Ann M. Duerr, 100, of Mt. Wolf, Pennsylvania, most recently residing at Senior Commons in York, passed away peacefully on Saturday, September 12, after a life beautifully lived. She spent her final days and hours surrounded by the children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren who adored her.
Born March 14, 1926, in Saginaw, Pennsylvania, Ann was the daughter of the late Clarence and Mary Miller. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 62 years, William L. Duerr, Sr.; her siblings, Clarence Miller, Margaret Smith, Christian “Henry” Miller, and Eugene Miller; and her grandson, Ken Kennedy, Jr. She is survived by her daughter, Susan M. Kennedy (Ken, Sr.); her son, William L. Duerr, Jr. (Kay); her grandchildren, Beth Shelly (Jim) of Hilton Head, South Carolina, Kimberly Graffin (Bob) of New Freedom, Pennsylvania, and Brandy Gallagher of York, Pennsylvania; and her great-grandchildren, Jacqueline Shelly, Eric Shelly, Kelly Graffin (Steven), and Stephanie Graffin (Leo).
Ann was the cherished matriarch of her family, the most loving, spunky mother, aunt, grandmother, and great-grandmother anyone could have the privilege to call their own. She had a way of making people feel cared for, included, and firmly loved, often with a quick wit, a practical word of advice, and a heart that always put others first.
Ann’s life was rooted in family, faith, hard work, and community. In addition to working at New York Wire Cloth and the former Bern Haven Sewing Factory, she and her late husband, William “Bill” Duerr, Sr., built a lifelong connection to York County bowling through Fun Bowl, Inc. in Manchester. While Bill owned the bowling center for 49 years, Ann served as Secretary Treasurer of Fun Bowl and stood by his side in the daily work of helping operate and support the business. Together, they helped create the welcoming spirit that made Fun Bowl feel like more than a place to bowl, especially for the young bowlers Ann so faithfully encouraged.
Her dedication to bowling and the community was recognized in 1994 when she was inducted into the York-Adams USBC Hall of Fame, an honor reflecting her years of service, sportsmanship, and commitment to the bowling community. Ann was also a proud member of the Ladies 600 Club and, at the time of her passing, was its oldest living member. For those who knew Fun Bowl, Ann was part of the warmth and welcome that made it a place to gather, grow, compete, and belong.
Ann’s generous spirit extended well beyond her family and the bowling community. She volunteered with the Northeastern Food Pantry, giving her time in service to neighbors and families in need. She was also a member of the Northeastern Sr. Center. Ann loved playing cards and bingo, enjoying the fellowship, laughter, and friendly competition that brought people together.
Ann lived with energy, purpose, and a love for simple joys. She faithfully watched the Baltimore Orioles, enjoyed golf, cheered for Penn State football and the Philadelphia Eagles, tended her garden, walked often, and loved reading. Springtime and Easter held a special place in her heart, especially flowers, egg hunts, Easter baskets, and the joy of creating memories for the children in her family.
She was generous, independent, and ahead of her time in many ways. In one final act of selflessness, Ann chose to gift her body to Hershey Medical Center for research, saying, “I lived well and long; they might be able to learn from me to help others.” It was a decision that reflected the way she lived—thinking of others, giving what she could, and trusting that even the last chapter of her life could serve a greater purpose.
Ann’s wisdom was simple and steady: give a little, take a little, remember the good things, and hold close to the moments that matter. She knew life was not always easy, yet she met it with resilience, humor, and gratitude. Above all, she hoped her family would remember the love, laughter, holidays, ballgames, bowling, golf outings, caregiving, and everyday moments they shared together.
A celebration of life will be held Friday, October 2, at 10 a.m. at Starview United Church of Christ, visitation with the family and a luncheon to follow. In keeping with Ann’s love of sports and the family’s wish for a casual gathering, guests are invited to honor her by wearing jerseys or colors from her favorite teams: the Baltimore Orioles, Philadelphia Eagles, or Penn State. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to support the Northeastern Food Pantry, 4832 N. Sherman Street Extended, Mt. Wolf, PA 17347.
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